I talked to Carmen on the phone today to find out about the tests. Results won’t be available for a week or so. In other conversation I became angry and accused her of deliberately sabotaging Stewart’s weekend visits. She got upset with me and ended the call.

Later in the day she called me back to say that she talked to her dad about it. He told her that she should demand an apology from me for saying such hurtful things. I explained that I didn’t mean to hurt her feelings. I was just frustrated because every time we get close to having a visit something comes up. I tried as hard as I could to make her feel better before I ended the phone call. I need her to believe I’m on her side.

I talked to Stewart later and advised him to go ahead and call his attorney. Now that the divorce is final, Carmen is clearly obstructing his weekend visitation.